Bartholin cyst 😣

I recently just started having sex I use protection and I have good hygiene. But almost every time I do have sex I get a Bartholin cyst I don’t know why I did all my research and everything on it but I can’t wrap my head around why I get them so often it usually takes about 3 days for it to pop i dnt ever have severe pain or anything like that but it is a bit uncomfortable does anyone else get them as often as I do? Is there something wrong with me?I feel like I’m the only one dealing with this