Being compared

Ra

Does anyone else get annoyed or hurt when their partner or friends keep comparing your pregnancy with like their mums or people we know.

Im always being told "oh *name* was so active during her pregnancy, you need to walk more" and "those pains your having are just *whatever*, *name* said so"

It hurts honestly, makes me feel like i have no clue what im going through, yes i may be a first time mum but im not stupid. I know what my doctor has told me and ill do what im comfortable doing.

😔 real confidence killer being told everything i know is wrong when everyone's pregnancies are different.