We all made out choices so let's live with them....

-_-

Long story short as short as possible

Religious family

Latino family

Im the baby of the family

Cousin was adopted like brother sooo.

BOTH my brothers are 6 years older than me and im the only girl

Both brorhers met and got their teen gfs pregnant at 15/16 ish.

My mom found out I lost my virginity at age 17 because she found a condom in my stuff and processed to call me ever name in the book she knew in both English and Spanish.

She told my dad and he gave the "youll never be a lady now ur just a used slut" speech.

I never gave a f**K really it's my body! And I was being responsable.

Now that I'm 25 no kids I been doing alot of travelling through work. Something my brothers and wife cant do due to having kids. Well my sister in laws are the ones that give me s**t about it.

As sarcastly as possible. "You can only do that cause you dont have kids" "it will all be over once u have kids" or the other route and say stuff like "you traveling is nice but kids makeout life" yeah your not loving life till you have kids" not once have they just said I'm glad ur happy or congrats. It's always some back handed complmt or snicker

I will not give you pity because you had a kid at 16 and did nothing for yourself after!

I will no feel presuured to have a child if I am not ready!

And most importantly We can do everything and anything with or with out kids it's up to me and my spouse to make it possible.

Your failure reflect nothing about me.