Annoying holiday gatherings while ttc

I'm so tired of people asking when we are going to have a baby. They dont know that we are trying and I get that they are excited for our future, but our family hounds us about it. My husbands family members sat in front of us and said "you're pregnant aren't you. You're going to announce it on christmas arent you?!" No.. I'm not.. I so badly wish I was though. I left there so upset. And now I know it will be the same on christmas.