Being lazy..?

So I am currently 37 weeks pregnant with baby #2 and baby #1 is only 10 months old so I’m basically 9 months pregnant with a 10 month old ( yes I got pregnant right away no I wasn’t trying) and I had a emergency c-section with my first. Well my aunt is telling me that I am just being lazy and using excuses for not trying for a natural vaginal birth but I’m not my doctor literally will not let me because of such a high risk for uterine rupture because I am only 10 months pp of a c-section.. they are going to have me have my baby 38 weeks because they don’t want me even getting contractions.. but apparently that’s just a b.s. excuse and I’m not a real mom because I’m “choosing” a c-section.. I didn’t want one in the first place.. I mean come on who wants to hear this a week before having their baby