Baby Shower for 3rd baby?

We were lucky enough to have some friends throw us a big, co-ed shower for our first baby (a boy). When I was pregnant with our second boy I was really against having another shower since we already had so much from our first, so my mom just had a small brunch with just a few close friends and family to celebrate the baby, and they brought us some small gifts.

This time is definitely our last baby and we are having a girl. A close family friend just told me she wants to throw us another shower at their home. I told her I’m hesitant as I don’t want to keep asking people for gifts, but she insisted people love buying baby gifts and they’d love to come celebrate, especially since we’re having a girl this time. (I should note this family loves hosting parties at their house and they’re financially able to accommodate it). But I still feel odd asking for gifts from friends and family for a third time.

I considered writing on the invitation “no gifts”, but I know some people still will bring some, which would make others who don’t feel bad.

Sorry for the rant. I know we are so lucky to have people who want to throw us a shower - I just feel weird since it’s our third and final baby and I’m not sure what the etiquette is!

I’d love some honest and non-judgy opinions on this! Thank you!!