alright friends, so my boyfriends never really struggled before with me in bed. he’s very attracted to me and we’ve always had great sex. always. we’ve been sleeping together for over a year.

but lately, when i go to go down on him he struggles to stay hard. sometimes he is hard but just not to his fullest like he usually is.

this has happened for the past 3 days. any suggestions for what i can do? i told him this is normal and i told him this happens every once and awhile but he puts himself down about it thinking that he is disappointing me.

when we have had sex over the past 3 days only one time he struggled. and we did it a few times maybe 5 on and off.

small possibility, i noticed it’s when I am going down on him or on top of him. Like he’s not attracted to me being “in charge”. it’s not even that i’m dominate i’m just riding and all. he says he likes it and insists for it though.

and i know damnnnnnnm well i give GREAT blowjobs.

Help a girl out..