So my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for a year now. We’ve been married for two as of last month. I wanted to get pregnant before I turned 30, which last month was my last chance (I turn 30 in August 2020). Yesterday a friend posted that she was expecting. She and her husband got married a month before my husband and I. Normally, I’m okay with pregnancy announcements, just kind of sad. This time it felt like I got hit with a truck. I’m devastated. I guess it’s realer with someone my age who hasn’t been trying long and got pregnant so quickly. I know God has a plan, or at least I thought I did. I’m angry and hurt when I KNOW in my heart I should be happy for them.

Any advice to not be so distraught?