Anyone else tired of hearing 'just stop trying'

I'm getting real annoyed with people who preach 'just stop trying, that's how I got pregnant'.

Sure, it works for plenty of people to stop stressing. But not everyone!

I quit for 5 months, stopped tracking anything (except my period), kept myself otherwise occupied, and just had sex when we felt like it and if I showed signs of ovulation (I dont always). None of that worked to get me pregnant or helped me feel any better about it. Just irritation lol.

This will be our first cycle back to logging and tracking and I guess we shall see. 22 months in total ttc at this point including a loss in Feb.