How did you find out you were cheated on?

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Hey gals! I was curious, for those of you who has been cheated on, how did you figure out your partner was cheating on you?

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I don’t know if this is the same but it was emotional cheating, he didn’t physically cheat because he couldn’t because this girl lived in America.
But one evening he went to sleep and he said I could go on his laptop if I got bored because I struggle with sleep and I went on his laptop I went straight to Facebook but he was signed in on his.. so I snooped (guilty I know🤷🏼‍♀️) but I had a female gut intuition and I saw messages to his ex girlfriend saying he missed her, he doubts our relationship he doubts his decision leaving her, she’d constantly say “DoEs Ur giRlfriend GiVe yOu Koala HuGs” idk what the fuck that meant lol.
He even was talking to her mum saying he misses her 😭. Honestly I got up closed the laptop. Told him he was a maaaassive asshole and left his house at 2am and ended things.

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My last ex I found latex condoms in his pocket and I'm allergic to latex. They were not our condoms. I also went through his phone after finding those and found messages of him talking to another girl. I left him found out I was pregnant, got back together. 2 weeks after our daughter was born I found messages of him and the same girl. him saying he was gonna leave me. Blah blah blah.. I left him. Should have stayed gone the first time. The other ex he told me he slept with another girl and tried to smooth it over. I left. My ex before that, the girl reached out to me and tried to shove it in my face.

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The girl who she cheated on me with told me, six months after it happened. I felt broken and I should have left her then, but she insisted that it was over and our relationship had improved since then so the cheating wasn't relevant anymore and it would be wrong of me to leave. She didn't cheat again, but she really wasn't very nice throughout the rest of our relationship

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My "Friend" at the time told me he had been cheating and thought he had gotten the girl pregnant. Turns out she was the "girl". 
To add she was already married with two kids in another state at the time. She miscarried (which is always sad in any situation).

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Text messages, Instagram messages, Snapchat

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The girl contacted me through MySpace and then we met up.

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He told me 3 days after.  But said "she kissed me, I didn't kiss her back" 🤦‍♀️

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He and I were together over 3 years, I didn’t find out until after we broke up. His ex and multiple other women came forward and told me. Essentially he had cheated on me with multiple women throughout the entire relationship and even had a new girlfriend before he broke up with me.

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He talked to me less. Never saw him and he lived in the building next to me. 
Lied about going out (dumbass would tell me he couldn’t go out then it would slip that he went to the mall with friends, go out to eat, etc, when he would tell me stuff) 
Started acting distant and pretty much was only around me for sex. 
Even sexually assaulted me multiple times (I didn’t know it was assault and/or I didn’t want to upset him by saying no). 
Eventually I found dozens of messages between him and other girls and even his ex- trying to tell her that he’s different and isn’t a cheater anymore (guess he messed around on her too). 
Calls, texts, snapchats, tinder, I eventually couldn’t take seeing it anymore. 
Threw his phone at him and long story short, I never saw him again.

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That’s how you know. It’s weird but you get a feel that’s how you know

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