Is this wrong of me? possible TW

I’m sorry if this topic isn’t allowed here, I’ll delete it if it’s not. I’m 21, ever since I was little I said I’d never have kids and I still feel very strong about that. Two of my friends are completely the opposite, they can’t wait to start their family with their partners. It came up in a conversation a few days ago what would each of us do if we got pregnant. It came up because one of my friends was stressing out, her fiancé and her had unprotected sex, relied on the pull out method and she was scared she was pregnant because her period was a bit late so we all started talking about “what if”. They both said they’d keep the baby even though they’re not ready, whereas I said I’d book an appointment for an abortion ASAP. So I got a lot of hate for it. How can I get rid of the baby instead of raising it, etc. Because I don’t want kids! They both asked what my boyfriend would think and I told them he’d be fine with it because it’s my decision not his, so he’d support me no matter what decision I make. Anyway, we got into the talk of methods of contraception we use. I’m on birth control and we don’t use condoms. They both said I should use condoms if I want to avoid pregnancy and if it happens then it’s my fault because I didn’t protect myself and therefore I shouldn’t just get an abortion when I knew birth control isn’t 100% and I didn’t take precautions. First off condoms hurt me. They dry me out, cause a lot of friction which irritates my vaginal walls and make me bleed. They hurt my partner (he’s got a really tight foreskin he can’t pull back so we always need to be careful). We tried lube but that doesn’t seem to help either so we’re just relying on my birth control. So am I wrong for only using birth control as my method of contraception and not taking extra precautions when I know I’d 100% have an abortion if it happens to get pregnant? I just wanna know if I’m actually being ignorant or if my friends are ridiculous