What do you guys consider kinky?

At what point is a blowjob kinky?

At what point is sex kinky?

Asking because my man seems to think basically anything that not everyone does is kinky. So like even giving blowjobs is a little kinky he says. Agree?

Edited to add that we do things I consider to actually be more kinky (bondage, occasional anal, toys- I don’t really consider toys kinky either) so it’s not like we’re super vanilla. He just says it’s all kinky