HELP! Girls I NEED your help !

Hey girlies,

I have a HUGE problem in my relationship that I have zero idea how to solve because everything I try just doesn’t work 😔

My man and I are pro athletes we have been together for almost two years and we have been living together for 3 months now.

We love each other and everything is great when his results are amazing and he feels good... he did his best results while being with me and now he seems to have a crisis.

He has a chance to go to the Olympics and he is working very very hard and even over working I would say. He doesn’t love himself at all... besides training like crazy he also trains and coaches kids so he is at the gym 24/7 ... he is going through a crisis now he had a small injury in his hip bone and everything went downhill. I been with him through all of that. He doesn’t believe in himself anymore no matter how hard I support him and motivate him. The kids he trains just drain him out non stop and he is very tired. So tired that even if I talk at home he gets very angry and tells me to shut up. He is not happy if his results are not the way they were... and now he started blaming EVERYTHING on me. He said that it’s MY fault and that when I came into his life everything went downhill. I see how he suffers and I feel so horrible I want to help and do everything I have in my power but he says nothing will help him. He is VERY depressed and just pours all his hate on me. Calling me stuff and just putting me down so much that I end up crying because I can’t take it anymore even though I try so hard not to take it personally and understand his situation.

I’m stuck... I HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO HELP HIM ANYMORE... he blames me and says that women are horrible and they take every success from a man. That it’s my fault and when he has a very bad training he tells me “Thank you (sarcastically) you ruined me” I’m in so much pain... I tell him to change his life then, live alone and do something about it if he struggles so much. But he won’t. When everything goes up he is the best ever but when it goes down a little I better be prepared... I love him very much and It breaks my heart to see him so devastated...

He tells me that if I shut up he will be happy and if I just stay shut forever. That I ruined how he was productive before and that he has changed for the worst with me.

What should I do???😭😭😭

Thank you....