Need some advice

So there’s the little girl that’s claiming that the baby she’s having is my fiancé’s baby but she 6 almost 7 months pregnant and I’ve been back with him for almost 9 months she’s due at the end of February and also I’m having his second child and I’m 10 weeks right now,we lost our first 8 months ago. Does the math add up to any of you? I’ve run over it so many times and i just need some other opinions so I can calm down.

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wh

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Well if you've been with him for 9 months and she's due soon then he would have either had to have slept with her while with you or she's lying about who the father is.

Ch

Chyane • Dec 17, 2019
Thank you and I’ll remember that 😊

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whoknows • Dec 17, 2019
If you need to vent or talk I'm always a listening ear!

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Chyane • Dec 17, 2019
It’s very helpful to have your help I will start to calm down about it. Also congratulations and thank you so so much. I trust him and know he wouldn’t hurt me.

Ge

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Same thing happened to my husband when we were dating. It was a long road and emotionally exhausting but it turns out she lied and just knew my man is a good man and would take care of her baby. What she didn't count on was me lol. I told her fine you say its his cool, but ANY contact you have with him is gonna go through ME first. And he is NOT going to any appointments. I told her once the baby is born we will be happy to pay for a paternity test and IF the results come back positive THEN WE will be in the babies life. But to suck it up because I WILL always be here and I'm not putting up with her BS. She retracted her claims before the baby was born. Turns out the babies father was in prison lol I protected my man from that thirsty little girl.
Same thing happened to my husband when we were dating. It was a long road and emotionally exhausting but it turns out she lied and just knew my man is a good man and would take care of her baby. What she didn't count on was me lol. I told her fine you say its his cool, but ANY contact you have with him is gonna go through ME first. And he is NOT going to any appointments. I told her once the baby is born we will be happy to pay for a paternity test and IF the results come back positive THEN WE will be in the babies life. But to suck it up because I WILL always be here and I'm not putting up with her BS. She retracted her claims before the baby was born. Turns out the babies father was in prison lol I protected my man from that thirsty little girl.

Ge

Ge • Dec 19, 2019
❤❤

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Chyane • Dec 19, 2019
Thank you and I will do that and I’m very happy that you understand.

Ge

Ge • Dec 18, 2019
Yeah it's sad when people are like that. If you need anything feel free to private message you. I know exactly what you are going through

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Dna test. Either she's lying or he cheated. Doubt she'd go out of her way to say he's the dad if he wasnt atleast fucking her around that time. Does she have messages or proof to show they were messing around after you got back together? What is your man saying?

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Chyane • Dec 17, 2019
She didn’t like how I was having his baby the first time and how we got back together but we got back together in April

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Chyane • Dec 17, 2019
No because she’s blocked on everything

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He might have cheated on you. But in any case if he claims it isnt his, a paternity test will clear this up! If he refuses to get one, well I think maybe he's been stepping out

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Chyane • Dec 17, 2019
I’m going to because he means a lot to me and he knows better

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M • Dec 17, 2019
Well that's good he's not over 18. But yeah if you trust him just ignore her unless they come knocking for a paternity test. Then he can just take it and show it isnt his and it's all done.

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Chyane • Dec 17, 2019
Okay thank you and it is. I don’t think I’ll have to worry much about her in the future she’s left us alone and he’s not 18 yet but will be soon. Either way he won’t let anything bad happen because he said he wants me and our baby that I’m carrying currently so it helps when I know that and knowing that the math doesn’t add up helps too. She also hasn’t tried claiming anything she only did it once