FTM HELP!

I’m a FTM, I stay home with my son, who is almost a year old.. and I feel like everywhere I look there’s things talking about what i should be teaching him, a “schedule” he should be on.. ect.. what activities do you do with your baby? He’s currently 11 months old, I don’t know what finger foods to feed, my son is very picky with our food- but he will eat all the gerber foods. I guess I’m just asking for a mom hand, I’m new to it. And I just feel lost, like I’m not doing enough.