I don’t Hate my in laws. So please don’t mis read this. I just simply don’t care for them and I wish I did and I’ve cried about it as well. Ever since meeting them years ago, they were super kind but it always felt forced because I’m the girl their son was so serious about. They’ve never been rude to me nor I to them. But they’ve never truly cared for me either. They have never argued about things in front of me, but had no issue confiding it all to my SO. I was offered an amazing job out of state and we were considering moving, when my SO confessed to them about it they called him Stupid and said it was unstable to leave suddenly. So we stayed. My SO and I started TTC and his parents would tell him he’s stupid again and he’s not ready for children. We find out months later that my SO is Infertile and our only option to have Biological children would be doing <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>

. Again, my SO confided in his parents about it and they told him it was a sign of god that he shouldn’t have children and all this other crap. I had an emergency surgery while doing the <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> process and they knew about it after while outside of our home dropping something off and didn’t bother to come inside to see me... It makes me mad because it’s Life events for US and if they think he’s stupid for wanting it then they might as well say I am too. We had our first Transfer and it failed and I wanted them to be more involved so my SO told them we tried it and they said it’s a waste of money and time. I’ve cried so much to want them to be more involved. And please no negative comments because I have visited them every time they’ve asked us to come out to family events and their other sons sport events. And since starting

<a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>

it’s pushed me to realize I shouldn’t feel guilty for deciding to not visit them or put effort if they won’t budge or be supportive. They have only stepped foot in my house ONCE and that’s because we asked for them to show up for Thanksgiving to meet my family... and they came in super late and empty handed .. it was just so rude as if they didn’t care. We’ve then have not tried to confide in them for support because it’s put us BOTH down ... but I feel so shitty I have no bond with them. And I see my parents and my SO and they treat him as their own and i love it but I envy it 😔