Tips needed!

How do y’all manage to stay optimistic throughout this whole IVF process? I have my good days and I have my bad. For financial reasons, I won’t be transferring a embryo until March. Maybe it’s the holidays? Idk! I just want to wake up to my own little family on Christmas! I want to create my own little Christmas traditions. I am half way through the IVF process and I’m very thankful for that but I’m so ready for that unconditional love.What are you ways you guys are coping during this holiday season?