This sucks

My mother and I don't have the greatest relationship at least in the past 3 years I just found out today that I might be having a miscarriage but I won't know for sure until Friday I didn't tell my mom I was pregnant because we have been fighting and I didn't want the negativity this is my third pregnancy. Anyways my dad knew that I was pregnant I told him privately and asked him not to tell my mom because I needed to tell her when I was ready and he agreed well I called my dad after I got told the news and he was sad he asked me do you want me to call your mother to tell her I said yes because I didn't know what to say I was already crying at the possibility of a miscarriage. Anyways about an hour later I get a text message saying( I heard that you are pregnant and sick I hope you and the kids and your husband feel better.) And that was it I'm honestly very hurt because I need my mom more than anything during this time and I just feel like she only thinks of how she feels at the moment. I honestly didn't even respond because I knew I was going to come off very emotional I just don't understand my mother and how she can be so cold towards me sometimes.