Sex?!

Question

So I am scared out my mind to have sex again! I am so worried about it not feeling good/the same for my partner and me ever again. I am barely 3 weeks pp so I have some time.. is there anything I can do to prepare physically and mentally?

Answer

I was so scared just like you. I didn’t want to do it!! But in all honesty for me it didn’t hurt at all, and felt way better than before. Just don’t worry about it. You already experienced the hard part

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I honestly think the longer you wait (after being cleared by your doctor) the worse it will be. My friend waited much longer than I did pp, though she had a pretty big episiotomy and I just had a little tear so we both did it after doctor clearance but here's was much longer than mine, and she ended up needing to get these things to basically stretch get vagina so the penis would fit. Being anxious about it will only make it worse because you tense up. Use lots of lube and lots of foreplay.

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Okay, so, it's different for everyone but I got my sex drive back 6 weeks PP. I was ready and we took it very slow. It's a little uncomfortable the first time or two, but, being on top was more comfortable for me. The angle on bottom didn't make my episiotomy feel good at all. That being said, wait til you're ready! Use lube, have a lot of foreplay, kiss, talk, snuggle, and relax. It will come to you!

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Pretty much just time and lube lol!

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It just takes time. You will heal and eventually it will be back to normal again! Don't worry!

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