3 days late for AF 2 years later

Bryanna

So the first picture is what I got last night after bd a few hours before.. work up this morning no bleeding. I decided to check my cervix and the second picture is what came out but my cervix is really High soft and open? Usually when I get my period it’s really hard and low. I took a test yesterday night and bfn? I’ve never been this late for my period I’m on CD34 is this just af? Why can’t it just be my turn?!😫