Getting older in a society that glorifies youth

Throughout my entire young adult life I wanted to look and feel older but the other day I thought "oh my God, I'm actually getting old". My dermatologist told me I should start an anti aging regimen and I can tell that everything I eat now goes to my stomach (what a pleasure).

I recently heard an uncle comment on a female politicians wrinkles and then another about how she uses too much "botox". Women cannot ever win!

In a society where youth is glorified, how should women tackle worries about growing older?

Also please send some reccommendations of some good anti aging creams (LOL)...