Me and my SO have been broken up for 1 year now. We still live together and last night was our first night trying to have sex in a couple months but I wasn’t aroused because I feel like it was rushed and not coordinated. I had my Fallopian tube removed almost a month ago so I was worried about my scar being bumped too hard or something. We’ve been trying to work on us but since sex is a really big deal for SO this was kinda a problem. Any tips or ideas on what I can do next time to be better aroused?