2nd baby-shower question

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For my first baby we had a big shower, invited everyone, in town and out of town. People sent gifts even if they couldn’t come.

With a second baby we are having a Sprinkle that is kinda turning into another shower.

Do we invite out of town family? Or does that seem gift hungry. I just want people to feel included not exploited 🤔

We actually don’t even need that much stuff we just like parties and have a lot of community.