My baby is 4.5 months old. He abs hates being cuddled. He loves attention but he’d much rather sit in his bouncer and me talk and play with him that way. He doesn’t like to be in my arms. It’s been that way since birth. At first I was like wow great because I’d just lay him to bed without rocking. But now it’s hard because when he’s upset or cranky I can’t really help him. Holding him to soothe him just makes him more frustrated. I feel bad because I want to calm him down but I realize when I hold him he gets super red and sweaty and tries to kick off me. It makes me a bit sad because I want to just hold him and cuddle with him and he hates it. Does anyone else’s baby hate to be held or be cuddled?