I left my fiance over this. The father of my child. Who is under a year old. Tell me if I'm over reacting...

I'd like to start off by saying I was a SAHM for 9 months. Stuck without the ability to work since 3 months pregnant due to the nature of my job. During this time, my now ex fiance was driving my vehicle, I thought he was taking car of it, paying the incuranse since he was driving it and I wasn't working. I was incorrect. He trashed it. Undriveable. And left it that way. I have spent over a year in the house alone with my son. Begging his father for some sort of time. Wondering why he was always gone so late at night. Sometimes until 11pm. Saying he was working. Which I knew was bullshit. Sometimes he would tell me he had to help a friend and wouldnt come home until 1am or later. If he was home he would constantly be on his phone. I was always on eggshells. Just wanting to talk with him. Have family time...

He was never there. Never helped me with my son at night. Only for the first week. After that, never again. Never gave him a bath. Maybe changed one diaper a month. Maybe fed him a total of 4 times in his life.

I come to find out he had a secret friend. A woman from our local grocery store. I obviously thought they were sleeping together, but after learning more, I found out shes married. He has just been hanging out with them. Going out to the bars, playing cards, just hanging out.

Knowing I'm at home needing him. Losing my mind. Also knowing that I would love to have friends. To hang out.

Until I left, he had taken us to the store twice, my son had left the house twice. Thats it.

This couple was apparently pushing him to sleep with a couple of their friends. I can only imagine the bullshit he told them to make them okay with having a brand new father out all night.

I needed him.

He says because he didnt sleep with her that it shouldnt matter. That I'm going over board and being judgmental.

I disagree. He dropped the ball. He should have been with us. His family.

What do you ladies think?