If my boyfriend has stopped having sex with me as much, should I secretly masturbate?

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I’ve tried talking to him but he says he’s just not been so into it, but he doesn’t like the thought of me masturbating, my sex drive is higher than his and I’m going crazy :( last night he was too tired and so he said this morning and he’s now up and not bothered :( I just feel like leaving it for ages and see if he actually ever asks me again 😂😂😂 
What do I do? I feel so unattractive 😞

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Its your body and if you need to masturbate just get on with it he has not right to say you’re not allowed to do that.

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Excuse me but your boyfriend has zero right to tell you what to do with your own body. He's extremely insecure and controlling if he won't let you masturbate.

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I said yes. But don’t believe it necessarily needs to be a secret... he can’t control you touching your own body 🤷🏻‍♀️

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It’s abusive to tell you, you can’t masturbate, if you want to then you should.
Does your boyfriend also not masturbate?

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My husband is very supportive and I’ve been upfront about my high sex drive since we first met. Now I’m pregnant with my first and my hormones have me going NUTS! If I even get a whiff of him...😍. However last night we’d already done it once during the day but I was set for a round two. He didn’t want to again and I was okay with that- I told him I’d take care of myself in the morning. This man, bless his heart, rolled over and helped me out 😉. You HAVE to communicate and be upfront and honest in your relationship. Never let yourself be held down by a selfish man, I did with my exhusband for ten years, finally woke up one day and realized how things SHOULD be- divorced his butt four years ago then met my current husband now I’m happier than I’ve ever been.

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I said no because it shouldn’t be a secret what you’re doing to satisfy yourself.

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Why would you do it secretly your not cheating on him or something your touching your own body 🤨

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He doesn't like the thought of you masturbating? Tell him to get over it! He can't control you, and if he tries, that's weird! There are other men out there who are amazing, who will support you and have more sex with you too. With that being said, umm girl just go for it and play with yourself if that's what you wanna do!

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Your body your choice 💅🏻

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Secretly masturbate.... uh no! Masturbate in front of him.

If my boyfriend has stopped having sex with me as much, should I secretly masturbate?

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