First, this is long so I'm sorry in advance. And thank you for reading it!

My 4 month old WILL NOT follow a schedule. Like at all. Right now he sleeps when he wants which is 12noon to 1030pm. We work at night, and I tried to get him on a 3am to 3pm thing. I know it's not ideal, but for now it works.

He cries around bed time. Like for hours. I don't know how to get him to go to bed when WE want him to. My ped. Told us to leave him in his crib to cry for a half hour. We left him maybe 12 minutes and couldn't handle the crying.

He made himself sick. Ugh. This is so stressful. I can't just give him a bath, lay him down and voala. No. He will cry. And fuss. And NOT sleep until HE wants to.

Help me. Please.