1st birthday

I was originally so excited to plan my lo’s first birthday party. We are 2 months away from his party and I have done nothing to prepare. I am just now looking for invitations and can’t find ANY that we like. I thought about designing my own but I feel l don’t have enough time. I also have no clue where to even start as far as decor. I know what I want to do for the meal. But for the cake? I have no idea. Cakes are very pricey too. I am feeling so overwhelmed that I don’t even want to have a party anymore.