Labor medications/ Todos, not to dos - Experienced moms!

Ladies!! Experienced mamas!!

I’m reading birth plans, because I would really like to do this as naturally as possible, or at least I know I don’t want an epidural - and probably with as little speaking as possible lol.

My plan is for my child’s father to have the birth plan to be able to explain to doctors and nurses what I want because I know I will NOT be in the mood to talk when I’m in labor.

But I’m reading all of these things and have no clue what they mean?

I’m trying to google and not sure I understand a lot of them?

There’s so many questions like “for pain relief would you like any of these? ________(lists a ton of meds but not epidural)”

“If induced would you like pitocin, ______ or_____?”

Enemas?

I guess my question is, any mamas highly recommend to stay away from any specific medications or have bad experiences with any parts of the process recommended to them that they were not knowledgeable about pre labor?