My girlfriend moved from the states to Canada for me. I’m still in university and she graduated almost 2 years ago.

We’ve been having troubling finding an apartment because my income is too low for what we want. She has good finances and savings but landlords want her to have an actual job before they’ll add her to the application for consideration.

So she’ll be staying at an Airbnb for the 1st month of her being in Canada.

She keeps telling her friends that she’s homeless or that she living in an Airbnb. And I feel like it’s making me look very bad to her friends. It makes me look like a bum.

Am I justified in feeling annoyed?

I feel like no one was rich when they were in college and I feel kind of exposed when she tells her friends the situation she’s in cause it really makes me look like I can’t support her or contribute....but on the other hand I do want her to be honest with her friends and family cause I can understand how this might be scary for her...