Can we come up from this? Couple issues.

How can he earn my trust back in the future ? If we’re distance for a while.

Let me start off by stating that i love this guy with all my fucking heart. We’ve been dating since July. However I don’t think he’s ready. I want to be with him. He genuinely loves me too. But an incident recently happened.

It’s not the first or the second. I told him if he does it again, i’m done. And here we are. I have to stick to my word but i just want him in my life

What did he do? He messages his coworker flirtatious messages. Calling names like Baby. CONSTANTLY. I told him in the past with the same girl. She knows we’re serious. They have talked about me as well. They also say i love you. it bothers me.

But i told him all ready that i don’t like that and he did it again!

How do we come back from this? Is there a way?

He lives with me and we do literally everything together. so it’s just a completely other side i never see when i’m not with him. I would love to text someone whom i can vent too and talk this out about. He was and still is my only friend since i moved out of the state living with my parents.

Update- I do think he is capable of changing. He removed people from his life that had the smallest impact on him whom i didn’t like myself. Not only that when I found out this third time he admitted everything. which i think is a good sign. we didn’t argue like normally. we were professional about it.

I have to respect myself at the end so how do we leave the situation calmly with getting all his shit out my house?

Can there be a future with him?