Vent on 2ndary infertility

Hi moms my heart just hurts today. We’ve been ttc 2 for 2 years 1 mc at 11 weeks and a chemical. We’ve been doing clomid and fermara and a failed round of <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a> in nov due to egg quality in nov. 40.5 years old. my insurance doesn’t cover any fertility so have been paying out of pocket over 25k. Would love to do <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a> again but my DH does not want to spend another 20k here in NYC-any recommendations? I want another child 😢