what the hell

so, i matched with this guy on tinder and i decided to be brave and message him first (im very very shy and introverted) and immediately 5 messages in he was begging me to come over tonight to his place. i knew instantly that wouldn’t happen because i’m a scaredy cat and i don’t trust anyone AND i have horrible social anxiety. however, given how cute he is it was tempting but i have strict parents and i don’t live on my own just yet so i kept making up excuses as to why i couldn’t. he seemed to be getting frustrated with me. so i guess what i don’t understand is why are guys so quick to try to convince you to come to their place?