boy problems

so! i’ve had feelings for my one guy friend for like 4 years... well call him “brian”. i kinda gave up on him and started talking to this guy we’ll call him “jay”. jay and i were talking for a little while but i ended things because i was like “ah i love brian”. then i went to a dance with brian and it was like “eeekkk i feel like i’m on a date with my brother”. THEN, that same night i kinda stared talking to jay again. jay and i have been talking for like 2 months now and i’m in this weird state again when im loosing feelings because i have feelings for my OTHER guy friend who we’ll call “ty”. ty is literally everything i look for in a guy, he’s perfect. jay is personally a little cringey sometimes and i feel like somedays i wanna talk to jay and then others i want nothing to do with him and i feel like he’s gonna ask me to be his girlfriend soon and i’m scared and i dont know what to do. please help. i dont know if anyone is into astrology and i dont understand it or anything but i’m a gemini if that has anything to do with it.