Dick size

I have a confession, I hope it doesn’t come off too rude, but I genuinely cannot get used to the significant dick size difference from my last two partners.

My fwb had this huge dick, and was literally so good at sex I could cum multiple times during our sessions (and that was just penetration alone). He was really fit so he could hold me up in so many positions, so our sex was wild and fun.

And now my current (“serious”) partner is very polar opposite in various respects. One is that he’s a lot smaller than the previous guy... When we were having sex I mistakenly thought he was still soft and I was apparently wrong, that was the whole thing.I don’t even think we can do very many positions due to size, so it’s mostly just missionary and me on top. And I know he knows he’s small because he really does make an effort to make me cum other ways, so I appreciate that but not going to lie I still feel so unsatisfied. It’s getting to the point of where I kind of don’t even want to have sex with him since I know I’m going to just have to be fingered to get off. And to top it off he’s not the most confident person so that can be such a turn off in the bedroom... i feel so guilty because he’s such a nice guy but idk just in hopes things get better I guess

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Ka

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Idk, sex is a big part of a relationship and if he doesn’t turn you on then that’s fine just maybe you guys aren’t compatible that way. I dated a guy a while back where it was like that, he was soo sweet and I honestly really wanted to feel it with him but we had... a lot of the same issues you described. In the end it didn’t work. I tried so hard to figure things out, try other ways but it just wasn’t what I wanted. It just wasn’t working for me. I know it sounds and feels shallow but if the sex isn’t working even at the beginning, do you want to spend your whole life in a relationship like that? You guys just might not be compatible that way. Doesn’t mean you’re a bad person or he’s a bad bf, you guys maybe just don’t quite fit. That’s okay. There’s someone out there who he’ll fit with better and there’s someone you’ll fit with better too. I mean obvs if you feel like you want to try other things with him and see if smth works then go for it. I just know the guy I was with at a certain point it was just like,,, yeah we just aren’t a good fit.

Na

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Sex is a big part of the relationship! It’s a shame he can’t give you what you want. Maybe you should reconsider if he’s worth it.

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Girl bye. He will be okay.

Mi

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If he could use a confidence boost, maybe you need to give him one. If you can’t do that for your partner, you should move on. Sex is a big part of many relationships, but it shouldn’t be the only important thing or the deciding factor of how you feel about a person. If that’s the case for you. Stop wasting his time and let him move forward.

Me

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I’m used to guys who are average or above average so I know I wouldn’t be happy with someone who was on the smaller side either. Sometimes you just aren’t sexually compatible with a person and that can leave you feeling unsatisfied and it really doesn’t do anything good for the relationship.

N

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Maybe experiment with toys?