what if it was you?

you’re finally dating the love of your life, your best friend. you’ve decided you want to start “trying but not trying” to get your lives started.

but wait..

wait...

your friend took advantage of you while you were blackout drunk. your friend who said he’d never want kids, would never have unprotected sex. he finished in you & now you’re pregnant.

you want an abortion? no, sorry you’re now forced to be a parent to a child you didn’t want. you’re forced into a life you never chose because of someone you were supposed to trust.

you wouldn’t want it to happen to you.

so why would you do it to him?

why would you take advantage of a man & go through with trying to force him to be a father even tho he said from day one he didn’t want anything to do with you or the kid.

you fucked up his trust. you took his first born child from him. you took advantage of him & want everyone to feel sorry for your “deadbeat baby dad”. but what you did was rape. what if it was you?

edit - i appreciate the concern you beautiful people. i was writing from my SOs perspective. he was raped & now has a child on the way. it’s destroying him & it took something away from both of us. i have hard feelings towards this woman. we plan on fighting this in court.

i wrote it as a woman because when women are raped we vilify it (rightfully) & we’re majority women on here. i want to stress that it’s never okay to do this to anyone.