Soooo... over the last few months, I've had really strong feelings that my boyfriend is cheating on me. I'm now almost 9 weeks pregnant and sort of having regrets, not like I want to get rid of my baby, but regrets of having one with him. He swears he's not cheating, yet do things to make me feel that he is.

1) Turning his phone on silent or vibrate when he gets home from work

2) Never answering the phone when this one chick calls him (weirdly it's his brother's baby mama) she tries to video chat him on FB everyday but he NEVER answers, then she'll call his phone and he still won't answer, but it's only when he's in front of me. He said the other day when I mentioned it to him, that he doesn't talk to anyone of the opposite sex, he's been saying this since we first got together last April 2019. Yet, the next days following when I questioned him about why he never answers her calls in front of me, he swears it's because "oh it's just my niece trying to facetime me, I don't feel like talking" Then while we were walking the dog, he's like "fine, you want me to be honest? Yeah, I talk to Laranjo (his brother's BM's last name) from time to time but it's only once every blue moon. She calls to talk about my brother" I'm like if that's all it is, why does she call you everyday and why don't you just answer the call? Then he goes to turn it on me, saying "why would you ever imply that I'm messing around with my brother BM? You know how close I am with him. If you think I'm messing with her, get the F*ck out!!!"

3) I've seen him messaging two other girls as well on FB, one being his ex, and he swears... they wrote me first, I was just responding because she was asking about my dying grandpa. The other girl, he claims was telling him that I was stalking her FB page??? Like wtf!!?? Yet, you hid both of these conversations from me and when I asked to see the messages, he refused... saying I don't trust him.

I know he was a "hoe" months before we started dating but he was single then per his mom and himself but he said he was ready to settle down and start a family. I trusted him wholeheartedly up until July when I saw him texting one of his ex that he talked to right before me. Mind you, all 3 of these females mentioned, he said he blocked.

I'm so stressed out... am I overreacting?