Tell me .. tell me if I’m wrong

I’m dating this guy we’ve been dating for 10 months now ..

His bm does not let him take his son ANYWHERE . They can’t even leave the house with her or someone of her family..

Nothing is court Ordered nobody has full custody of the kid .

He signed the birth certificate.

Now at one point they went to court and the option was he’d get his son 2 days out the week etc 300 a month in CS

Now the fair has came around he has asked his bm to take his son bowling with us ( got told no he wasnt gonna show his son off like a little family ) like anytime he asks he gets told no .

Now he wants to go to the fair & he wants to bring his son now I told him I’d go if his son came his aunt her gf and their son ) I’d be comfortable and okay with it ..

But you just want it to be us 3 Adults and your son ..

No I dont trust anything no I don’t trust the relationship he’s had with his bm yes she’s in a relationship with someone else

BUT YOU NEVER KNOW A PERSONS REAL FEELINGS THEY WERE ENGAGED AT ONE POINT ..

It’s been times were he’s been drunk and said some pretty nasty mean shit about his bm to make me 2nd guess everything but I’ve moved on from it

I just can’t help but hear everything he says over in my head at times .

When me and him went out of state she was like “ don’t worry next time I’ll come with you “ like what .

Let me add in that we do live together and I take him to work every day and I drop him off to his sons house when he wants to go I go over there sometimes but I don’t go over there all the time because I told his baby mom that I am not about to sit in the living room all the time doing nothing

His son is 3 Years Old . They broke up right before her son was born .

I think the reason he won’t go to court again is the money issues that are gonna come behind it and him not having it .

I’d help with anything I’m just not finna continue to involve his bm in everything he and I want to do with his son like we date her too shit is annoying