My daughters father and I are separated we have been she goes to her fathers every week for a few days this last time she came back home with a butchered hair cut and with earrings in her ear when they were infected I had been taken care of them but someone had put them back in when they weren’t healed. I was upset and ask her father why he do such a thing he mentioned he shaves her back and he shaved her eyebrow hair and the hair on her forehead I was livid she is two years old I feel so strongly that this is wrong and borderline child abuse and he sees no wrong in it anyway. He does it because he thinks she’s to “hairy”. I cried over this all night and am considering not allowing her to go back because he does not take me seriously and the response I received was like whatever I’ll TRY not to do it again. It breaks my heart even thinking about him doing that to her she is a child why is he fixated on her image that he feels the need to do that her that can mentally damage her so much please tell me I’m not over reacting please tell me your thoughts