Stressful mother in-law!
I need to vent!! May be long!
So we know not to really go on what my mother in-law plans because her plans always change and she always changes her mind! So we sat down with her when I was 3-4 months pregnant and ask if she would b able to come and stay with us for a few days after I had the baby because we live in an apartment and my son is a wild child! She said “I have vaca days and will take off a week!” We said that would b awesome and settled on that but my gut kept saying she will change up on us and We just moved to another state! My mom is disabled she had her toes taken and my sister is a thief my husband really doesn’t want her in our house! So tonight my mother in-law Called and she knows we have a set scheduled date for my c-section so now she is saying she is just going to stay the one night with my son and that’s it! We have 4 dogs and a almost 2 year old in an apartment! We have to walk 2 dogs separate and the 2 together, we at least thought if she changed her mind she would at least stay until I got out of the hospital so my husband has someone to watch our son while he walks the dogs and what not! So now I’m going to be in the hospital alone and I had no choice but to call my sister to come the weekend after I get out to stay with me to watch my son while I’m trying to heal! I’m so pissed because every time we make plans she always changed them and fucks us over! My husband can only take 3 days off so he will have off the Monday I have my c-section till that Friday which he will have to stay home with our son and take care of the animals! What really pissed me off is that his mother goes to say “Well can’t her mother come and help?” Like really my mom can’t even walk or sit down without assistance let alone take care of a hyper active baby and her daughter who just had a baby! She said “well I’ll come the following Monday and stay a few days” like don’t even bother at that point because I know you will change your mind about that too! I’m pissed my husband is extremely pissed because he’s leaving me alone in the hospital and I have no family to come visit since I live in a hour to a hour and a half away! 🤦🏻♀️ I’m bout to break down!
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