Help me

My partner has no initiative...and little ambition

I am the complete opposite.

My partner has been raised to have everything done for him and around him.

Eg If there is a towel on the floor he's left from having a shower, it disappears when he returns to the bathroom.

If his bed is left in the morning, when he gets back it's made perfectly.

Rubbish or anything anywhere always cleaned for him.

Everything goes unnoticed and unchanged still.

We've had so many issues with this because I work in a salon where I'm constantly at work and running off my feet then I come home and still do everything.

No help what so ever

Has anyone been in a similar situation, if so what can I do?