Child meeting boyfriend ?

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So to the moms that aren’t with their baby’s father.. when you got in another relationship when did you let your child/children meet him/her?

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About 1 to 2 years when you are more sure it's gonna last. I cannot stand women who bring every new man into their little ones lives. 
Its so vile. Kids become attached so easily and it's not fair on them.

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For me its has to be after 1 year of dating 
( I dont want multiple people in and out of my sons life because that gets traumatic )

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For us it was after a year. I wasn't going to have guys jump in and out of her life. 
Then after a month of meets with my kiddo, I kinda used her thoughts (nonverbal cues) on him if it was going to be a good fit for us both. She was young, not talking much yet.. so if she was still scared, anxious, etc around him I would have to think of something else. They hit it off wonderfully though!
I also wanted plenty of time to see how he would treat her. So many kids get the short end of the stick when parents start dating, I wasn't going to be another one of those stories. Sure if that makes dating life slow then for me that was fine. 
Heck just the other day I read a post on here how the mother finally realized after x-time with her boyfriend he was favoring his child over hers (from a previous relationship) to the point it was abusive towards the kid. There are so much more I could whip out as an example but I think you get the point.

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My husband and his ex wife split when their son was 2. Im not sure how he introduced other woman to him but with me I didn’t meet his son until a month after seeing each other and I was only introduced as a friend (my idea) and it was in a public setting. It was about 3 months when I was introduced as daddy’s girlfriend. His son was 8 at the time.

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Its reversed for me. I have a step daughter from my husband's previous relationship. I asked him to ask her mom if she would like to meet me before I met the child of course she said no. So I told him when i was ready i would meet her. It was about 6 months into the relationship when i met her.

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I’ve never been in this situation, however my husband has been! Him and his ex got divorced when the youngest was 6 months old. When we met the kids were 9 and 10. Before me they had met 1 other woman but only 1 time at the zoo. I was the first woman ever in their lives and he introduced me after a month because we knew we would stay together! Their mom has introduced them to many men whenever she begins dating. I think it’s important to protect the kids. Even when he was dating other women he would make sure the time with his kids were for them only. I have an amazing relationship with the children and I think this has a lot to do with it because they knew I was staying!

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I met my stepson pretty quick in to mine and hubby's relationship. My stepsister introduced damn near every guy she was with to her kids. When my stepsister met her ex husband they were together for I think 6 months when she had to meet his baby mama before she could meet his son. I would suggest to wait until you are both comfortable with it and also only if you feel the relationship will be/is getting serious.

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Once we decided we were going to live together. It happened pretty quick because his lease was ending. I think it was about 4 months? But, we had known each other for 5 years previous and were engaged and married quickly after. I think you just know when the time is right sometimes. 
Also, people that bring men/women around their kids all the time are trash.

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My child met my current bf before we were in a relationship.

Child meeting boyfriend ?

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