Pissed at my husband

My husband cannot take the kids crying or making any kind of loud noise. Our 7 week old had colic so it’s like the literally definition of purple crying. I am so pissed because I asked him to watch the kids while I pumped. Through the baby monitor I can hear him put her in her crib to essentially “cry it out” SHE IS 7 WEEKS OLD!! I had to stop pumping and go get her and tell him that she is too little for CIO and I’m not comfortable with it. This asshole has the nerve to tell me that the doctor said she can go 30 minutes (no the fuck she can’t!). Then he turns down the baby monitor so he doesn’t have to hear her crying. Then I find out that as I’m in my room pumping my 3 year old wanted to come into my room and he told her no. I walked into the living room to her crying asked her what was wrong and she said she wanted me so I said ok you can come into my room you know that. She then says “daddy told me no.” I am so pissed right now.