Moving in together?

Question

My boyfriend and me have been together 3 years. My lease is ending in a month and I will have to sign another 12 month lease if I wanna stay there.
My boyfriend is living with his parents to save money for a house, and said I can move in with him because the rent is more expensive on the next lease. 
I would love to move in with him to save money to buy a house together, but I’m just thinking about the what if’s. 
We have an amazing relationship, I couldn’t love him more if I tried. But, if I move out, I’ll have to sell or store my furniture somewhere, and then if things don’t work out with us, I have no where to go, except to try find another apartment as quickly as possible. 
I’ve never lived with a partner before, and I’m not doubting our relationship, I’m just trying to consider all the possibilities. 
Can anyone plz give me some insight on this? Or their similar situations?

Answer

Hey! Dont ruin your own happiness by worrying about the what ifs. Sometimes you just have to leap and move onto a new chapter in life. I've also been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and even this year I was thinking about if it is time to get an apartment together, what if this, what if that.. what if Its time to start living life with someone you love! Dont forget, you arent getting married :) if anything goes wrong, heck! You find another apartment and move on :)

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i wouldn’t care how expensive the next lease is i would get two, THREE jobs before i EVER. EVERRRR had the nerve to move in with my parter who lives with his parents.

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I would think it would be better if he moved in with you. I wouldn't deal well with living with his parents. I know people do that, and sometimes it works. But you are in their house and would have to adjust to living within their habits and expectations. It's too easy to get on their nerves, or them to get on yours. It can just create bad feelings all the way around.

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Personally I wouldn’t move in with someone and their parents, he should move in with you. You have been together long enough for this to be the logical move..

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There's a reason he still lives with his parents.

Moving in together?

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