Attention: Mamas who live close to their family and in-laws

K

When we had our daughter we lived a crossed the country so it was very easy to navigate visitors. Now we only live an hour and a half away from both my family and in laws. I’m wondering how everyone navigates this? I don’t want to hurt feelings but I also do not want 20 + visitors at the hospital and I’m not sure about little cousins coming to the hospital either. I know my mom will come because she will be caring for my toddler while we are at the hospital so I feel like I have to let my mil come too. Also, when you come home from the hospital do you set time limits like visitors are welcome from 4-6 or what do you do? I’m kind of leaning towards saying no visitors for the first few days while my husband has time off from work so we can just have family bonding time with our toddler and new baby. What do you ladies do? Give me all the details it’s starting to stress me a little