Relationship adive?

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I know I shouldn't post this stuff on the Internet but I am so ready to just call this "relationship" quits. I'm 13 weeks pregnant he is constantly out every single night with his friends till 1 in the morning in our garage (so I know he's not cheating but still) I see him maybe one hour if that a night. He's lying and now I found he's been taking Xanax behind my back. I don't know what to do anymore ever since we got pregnant he's been completely different. I love him but I don't like the person he has become. Side note we tried for this baby for months.

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I would let him go through this phase without getting mad. Guys get freaked out by things differently than us ladies do.

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He's probably having a hard time processing everything. You are finally pregnant. It's real now, and he might not know how to deal with it. So he's "acting out" I guess you could say. I'm not saying what he's doing is right, but I'm not saying it's not normal. And also remember, you are pregnant and hormonal. So it probably seems a lot worse to you. I would try talking to him. Ask him how he's doing, if there's something wrong, if he wants to talk about anything. Tell him you want to hang out with him more, or go out there and hang out with him and his friends. Communication is key, you need to talk to him and figure out what's going on. I don't think you should just up and leave and give up. Having a baby is a big deal, and a lot of people don't know how to process. Not just men, but women too. I'm sorry you are going through this and I wish you luck.

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leave until he gets his act together . that is not acceptable behavior , especially if you have discussed it with him already

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When we found out we were pregnant with our son my husband wanted to still hang out with his friends, go out and drink, party all that to get it out of his system because he knew he wouldn't be able to when he was born and he would have to man up. We talked about it and I would go with him and hang out too and be the DD. I got jealous of the fun but got over it. Also if I thought he was hanging out too much with his friends and I wanted some alone time with him I just told him, he listened and I got what I wanted too. We both gave in to make the other person happy. I don't agree with your man doing the pills but just try talking to him about it all. Helpfully he understands your point of view and does the right thing. Go hang out with him and his friends and have a night out with just you 2. It worked for me so hopefully it will work for you too. Good Luck!

Relationship adive?

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