In laws advice**update

Hi ladies I need some advice. My husband gets one day off a week which is on a Sunday. I would love to spend that day with him and our son and I do Not mind spending a little time with the in laws but for us it’s just all day with them. My husband, my child and I don’t seem to do any kind of activity together as a family. And when I say I don’t want to go he just picks up our son and goes to his parents house for hours and I end up spending the day alone.

Any advice on how to get him to see that I need some time for our family alone? I tried telling him and talking about it but he’s not understanding. He is afraid of his parents and they often get pissed off at things like that. But this is not how I want to continue living.what can I do about it?

Thank you ladies for your advice. Well I did talk to him more about it but he got so defensive like iv never seen before. Just like a little child that has his candy taken away from him. He says his parents are worth more than me and he will continue to go to them no matter what I do. ( I tried telling him that my point was not to stop going, it was just to balance things a bit between us and them like go for an hour or two and then it’s our turn) and he kept saying you don’t need to go no one is telling you to come. So ladies, this Sunday I’m guna kick back and relax and enjoy the show for the next few weeks. I’m sure I’m guna get a call or smthn asking why I’m not coming. But I’m setting my foot down cuz if I don’t things will never change. It’s not that I don’t enjoy going there it’s just that there are no limits and we get stuck for hours and hours and hours and if we say wer going out we do get an earful. we don’t have time for us anymore and that’s very sad and it’s annoying me so much.

And now with the new baby on the way it’s guna start getting harder and harder. Any other advice is welcome as I still need a solid plan. For now, I know I won’t be attending this ritual every weekend. I might go once every month but that’s it for now.

That’s all I have 😂

And taking my son early in the morning before he wakes up is at the crack of dawn and he later wakes his dad up around 7:30-8:00. Honestly it’s too much work for me to leave the house before that time and it’s just not worth it so I’m out of a solid plan for the moment.