Why These men are same? Need some Evil Ideas ladies 😎

Why I mean my husband is so lazy and laid back in everything he does. So we hardly no I mean RARELY have any Intimacy or sex. We don't even do any outdoor activities like we used to do back 2 years ago. Since I got pregnant and after baby (which is 1yo) we don't do much. I mean the only outings we had so far were because I enforced them, I paid for it so far even I haven't earn anything for 12 months but I have the savings. I surprised him on his birthday I buy gifts and clothes for him cook his fav meal, wash and iron his clothes everything but still when I ask him that I want some take away ( which I ask about 2 weeks later, tho there were food at home but craving for a small takeaway cost £4.00 and that's all. But he had to have a micky fight (just love cuddling and making comments blah blah) for an hour and when I got real angry n tried to sleep on empty stomach, he asked me what I want to eat........ I mean really lol are you freaking kidding me like u oh so stingy n stupid and playing dumb.... I got angry n said no word to him and he went to work without saying goodbye to me and since then he hasn't sent me any messages or anything...

I'm so down I don't even know how to change this stinginess from him as whenever we have that instead of apologising to me he gets mad with me that I'm mad with him... Lol I need some good evil ideas for it.