I will be a day shy of 20 weeks when I find out. I'm really excited but people (generally older than 45) keep telling me that is too soon and there is no way they would be accurate.

I know there is always a chance they could be wrong or the baby just isn't in the right position, but I feel like a lot of people know sooner than that (not a lot sooner, just a few weeks). Also I most people saying they can't tell are older so I wonder if the technology has just changed?

Idk. I feel like people just like to suck the joy out of every little part of pregnancy lately. 😂 Like let me be excited to find out! Everyone just tells me to not be excited about this or that and it can really start to him you out.

Anyways, when did you find out?