It’s not even the lack of time together. We cook, watch tv together after baby goes to sleep. Some days are very good. He helps out so much all the time but I just feel like he doesn’t truly understand how difficult motherhood is for me some days and how much it has changed me & contributed to my anxiety. When it comes to communicating feelings, he’s just not good at it. And despite having a wonderful husband who loves me and does his fair share of work... I feel disconnected from him.